We are members; LL seems to cater to younger swingers (20s & 30s), mostly. LL is cliquish and exclusionary. They also play dirty with their members. For example, if you decide to let your membership expire, they continue to leave it up. They do not indicate that you canceled your membership. Other members continue to write to you, but you cannot reply. You will get notices of these income messages, and LL will try to induce you to pay to sign up again in order to answer these incoming messages (or you will look snobby and rude). We prefer Kasidie.com. They treat their members very well, and the people are warm and friendly.