In all my years as an American male, never once did I see this word in print...be it book, the daily newspaper, a label on a can of soup...no place! So I get on j4l, as it's also known by, and here's a word, which by root, is "reciprocal "...back and forth, I get that. So how do Ukrainian or Russian girls throw out this giant, obscure English noun at me in a letter? Particularly when the stated extent of English speaking ability is poor, or intermediate? Riddle me that! The other big lie, reading my profile. I say I can't be a father anymore, yet 23 to 35 year olds blatantly state "I want to start a family with you ". And those say they have no children yet! Then there's the other percentile, who are single with a kid or two in tow( one claimed 4!), am I not justified in being a bit apprehensive of non-English speaking offspring as part of the package? But the worst of all...not an uncommon occurrence...is age preference. Sure, it is not rocket science to see why a 20 year old would claim she is not happy with her own age group, then use the ploy that older men are a real turn on for her... come on guys, you can't be buying into such bs! Here in the US you can't get the time of day from young women, why think it's any different in places like Kiev or 0dessa...Moscow is the worst! IMHO, J4l is the top proponent of robo letters!