I told the listener on this site that I just needed to vent and that I find it offensive when people offer oversimplified solutions to a complex problem. The listener agreed that oversimplified solutions were annoying, then proceeded to offer flippant and unrealistic solutions as I described the problem I am having. Their suggestions included legal action with no basis or tricking an abuser into paying me money so I can get away. I can't believe how bad this "therapy" is. It's worse than a public forum. Something that really offends me is when I say I can't afford to abandon my mortgage and live elsewhere and people tell me to just leave. No one ever listens. This site just confirmed that I am entirely alone and no one believes what I say about my situation.