Nick J.

I've been with Swinging Heaven for 10 years and for me it's been good. It's got a pretty huge membership principally men or couples, although with the couples the female partner is rarely/never seen. Most of the fun happens in the chatrooms which are occupied by 95% guys. Most chatrooms are set up on the day by members, hence you might get "bi married", "black guy vwe to meet bbw" and each can have anything from 1 to 100 members. Each chatroom has available space for members to go on cam but you'll probably find that the majority of these are occupied by men masturbating. There's general conversation in the chatrooms but this can be pretty turgid and generally interspersed with "bolton guy looking for c**k fun now" type announcements. Beside that, private messaging allows members to discuss their preferences and potentially arrange meetups.

I'm bisexual and only use the site to arrange meetups with other bi men, usually married and middle aged. I've probably met about 50 guys in total and have probably been let down about 200-300 times - there are a lot of timewasters who fancy the idea but back out at the last minute or when it comes to swapping addresses. If you're a man trying to find a woman either single or in a couple, or a couple trying to find a woman or another couple I wouldn't rank your chances too high. I think it happens but the vast amount of meetups seem to happen between middle aged or older men, many of whom have wives no longer interested in sex, and who have turned their interest to other men. (Doesn't apply to me by the way:-) but that accounts for most of my meetups!)

Really great site! I would recommend it to anyone.