Preston K.

I went on this site a few times and I just wanted to talk about my feelings but then they interrupted and kept pressing me instead of listening to what I have to say. I just wanted to vent! Leave me alone and stop getting on my case about what I am not telling you.

I don't want to tell them things and they aren't respectful. Its really weird. It makes me feel uncomfortable and it makes me feel like they don't care about you, which they don't anyway.

That is all they care about. It's annoying and they don't want you to feel better.

It's just it's all about what they want instead. They don't want to help at all. It's frustrating and I am annoyed. I don't know what they want for me.

I thought you can talk to them about anything when you feel sad but you can't because it's always them pressing you for information constantly.

I was using this site to vent because of bullying and feeling sad.

The conversation started out okay and then it got weird from there.

I didn't realize it was a faith based site and that was my fault. I didn't look around enough as I was just eager to chat.

But the weird part about is they try to convince you to convert and they don't respect your background either.

I will not be returning to this site because they get all weird and they bring religion into the conversation.

Maybe it's just me but people on this site are bad.

They got upset and they said that they were "kind to me when no one else was". It was something along those lines.

It almost seemed like they were begging and that's not okay. I am not happy with that and I mean it didn't feel right to me.

It seemed like they were behaving cult like in a way too. I am very disappointed and it creeped me out.

I had to write a review of this site because I used this site recently and I had a horrible experience that shouldn't of happened.

When I went on the site the three people I was chatting with were bad. They were claiming they were respectful but no one on this site is. I don't know why they claim it when it's far from the truth.

I only used this site to talk about PTSD. I was talking about my flashbacks and nightmares. But they turned the conversation into something else and that concerned me.

One person I was talking to was blaming her technology for not working sometimes and it was annoying and she said that is why she didn't answer.

I don't know why you have "technology" that doesn't work when you chat.

It seemed odd because I never went on a site like that to vent and someone blamed their technology like that. But if they did they would of mentioned it beforehand and they were professional about it.

At times when I did get her messages she kept interrupting to tell me her opinions about what I was saying.

It was awful because it wasn't helping and it was like she was trying to put me down instead.

But I didn't ask her for her opinions and I just wanted someone to listen instead.

I don't care about what she thinks. If I did care I would of asked her. She was extremely rude to me.

She made the assumption that I was isolating myself and it's not her place to say it and it was strange because it's not her place to judge what I do with my life. She made me feel worse and I thought she was supposed to make me feel better.

I think it was because this is a faith based site. But I don't care and respect is respect.

No one should judge and criticize because no one knows what I have been through and it's my life and my choice.

I wasn't isolating myself and I shouldn't have to explain myself to a person or should I say bot. It was my time to get better.

She was acting like a bot sometimes. She was weird and there was something very wrong about her.

She wasn't concerned about me and she gave me the creeps because she said she is happy it isn't hard I was isolating myself and she can't treat me this way.

I don't know why she was treating me this way because she doesn't know me and she is accusing me of something that isn't true.

She couldn't understand what I was saying and she kept repeating herself. This left me frustrated and I shouldn't feel this way either.

That is why I am writing this review. They are rude and they don't accept you as you are.

Then the two others were just as bad. I mean one was not respectful because he/she kept arguing with me and didn't end the chat.

I told him/her I didn't want to talk. I just wanted to be left alone and he/she was stressing me out because he/she refused to leave.

Then another one told me to change that is why I said they don't accept you as you are.

They want you to change to make them happy and that is not right for a site your supposed to go to for support.

The person wanted me to change so I can be like everyone else. I don't know why and that proves they are abusive.

I mean that is how she wrote it. Then she was trying to bring religion into and I didn't ask for it.

She thinks she knows what I was designed for. I don't like when religious people on these sites and or whatever try to coerce you and or force you. Shame on these people. I am an individual with a different background and needs.

Also they encourage you to come back and I'm not going to come back after the way I was treated.

They were accusing me of being upset. I wasn't upset because if I was they would know. I shouldn't be treated badly and then lied to because that did happen.

I was corrected and they thought I knew what they were thinking and I didn't. I don't know why they were correcting me.

I am not going on this site anymore. It would best for me to chat to a wall instead and at least it doesn't talk back and it isn't rude to you.

I hate this site and it isn't what I thought it was.

At least I accept myself and actually love and care about myself.

You have to do that because no one else will do it for you. I know myself better and I'm proud of myself for leaving.

I spoke with three people but I remember two of the people's names. I spoke to Katy and June. Be wary of these people.

I hate Vigyaa! This site is not for me and I don't think it is a good site to go on. I don't like how you don't have a block button and or even a delete button. I hate how it is anonymous but you still get bullied on there. This site is asking for it. People still say nasty things to you and they advertise that it is "safe place" but it isn't. They make fun of you and mock you for what you write about. They should add features on there to improve the site more and to make it user friendly. I am just suggesting these things because I think that it would be a good thing for the site owners to think about. People on there are creepy too. I mean these people have serious issues and you don't realize it until you go on there. They accused me of hating on people which I never did but they thought it I did. I can't control what they think. Why bully me if your not sure if I am hating on people or not? At times I started to feel like they thought I was a joke. That is how I knew they had issues. I shouldn't have to feel that way though. But I did and that is bad. It makes the people that own the site and the people on there look bad! The people on the site need a therapist more than I do and they need medication too because there was no reason for them to act the way they did. Or maybe they need to change their meds? They took everything I said out of context. They misconstrued every single word out of my mouth. I was venting like the site intended and people were being weird as usual and we're implying I wasn't. They were trash talking my vocabulary when I was doing a creative writing vent. People were strange because they told me to change my attitude when they were on my vents giving me attitude and they were being mean on my vents and they were telling me what they thought about how I think when they haven't been in my shoes. How can they know what I think? They never seen me and they never met me and so that is why they are creeps and they thought I own the world and the site for some reason. I don't understand what made them say that but it was weird and it didn't make sense. What they said concerned me a great deal. The way they acted and how they thought they knew me were red flags that they weren't normal and that is not a normal way to think and act. I mean I know I don't know these people myself but they really showed how troubled they were. These people were mental because they got mad when I told them I didn't want them to read or comment. They should just respect that and move on not act so hurt and then get all mad about it and then bully me about it and not act like I was bossing them around. They didn't do that they mocked me and they took my ideas and made a post about what I wrote about. It was the weirdest thing and it didn't make any sense. They took what I said literally and they took offense. They aren't strong enough to admit they made a mistake because instead they blamed me. They said that I was venting for attention. They said that I should leave the site when I should be on there just like everyone else. Why should I leave when they were the ones bullying me? They singled me out because they didn't like how I thought or what I wrote about. I was being creative at times and I wrote angry letters and that is how I vent but all the weirdos had to come on mine and spread their hate. I got them to openly admit they were trolling on my page. That shouldn't happen and there are trolls on that site too. They were nosey and inconsiderate about my feelings. They were disrespectful, dismissive, and rude. Ugh. Maybe there were kids on the site? I don't know. They were hating on me left and right and saying that I am whiny but I was venting like I was supposed to? I don't know... There were scary people and hypocritical people. There were all kinds of people. If you like that then go for it. I didn't so that is why I left and leaving this review. I didn't understand what they were saying half the time. I know that how they treated me wasn't my fault. I didn't do anything wrong. I was strong and stood my ground. I didn't bully people on other people's vents but they bullied me on my own. That shows weakness. I can't wrap my brain around why they came on mine but it is because they are weak. I guess they were doing what weirdos do best. I can handle bullying but not to the extent where it is in your face. This site is more like a forum rather than a vent site. Maybe that was the whole ideas? How does that make the site safer? It makes the site limited! There are people on there that are adamant about telling you that they don't like you but this is a site to vent on and for some reason people want to make "friends". People seem to want to boss you around like they are in charge or they think you are bossing them around. It doesn't matter which way it still is weird because this is not a place where you gather round with your friends. I didn't know that my own opinions my personal opinions made people think I was bossing them around. People seem to want to call you out on your nonsense but don't bother doing it for themselves. They think vents are sob stories apparently because they said that about mine. When they start to want to make friends that is when bad things happen and then that is when they single me out. This takes away from the site altogether. If you are different in anyway they know somehow. I don't know how but they can detect it and come after you. I thought it would be a great for me. But it turns out that it is just another major disappointment. Another that will go down the drain and it will be forgotten about. People on there think that my vents are directed at them and they aren't. I mean they aren't pleasant. They aren't nice. My vents aren't kind. But what vents are? I had a horrible experience. I just had a bunch of people that would accuse me of different things because of what I chose to vent about and they did this because they somehow felt threatened by what I wrote about. Not my problem. It is theirs and I am not sure why they told me.

There is something not right about the people on 7cups. There are a lot of bad people on there. They are evil because these people don't help you and they don't care and they judge you and they are extremely small-minded and they don't understand that there are people with disabilities and they don't accept people are different. They are cult like. They accuse you of lying when you aren't. They accuse you of a lot of things you aren't doing. They torture you verbally on purpose and they bully you and are mean. They sound like people who gossip too. They believe what other people say about you and they do that instead of thinking for themselves. I felt worse after talking to the listeners because the people on there are so toxic. I didn't do anything and these people were being rude to me and they were disrespectful and dismissive. There is a lot of people who force you to agree with them and then they don't listen and they make you clarify what you said when they should just listen and not chat to you while you type and while your venting. These people don't know what respect is. These people don't know what venting is and I had to tell them over and over. They give opinions without being asked and they act like they know everything and they act like they know the situation when they don't. They accuse you of things your not doing all the time and it was annoying. They tell you how you should feel because they are controlling. They want you to be hurt or bothered by people or something instead of feeling better and because they think they should decide things for you and its really messed up and because they accuse you of that too and because they don't care and they want you to be miserable. Also they don't know what being a listener is and what being a listener is, is to listen. I am typing and they don't allow you to finish and its annoying and rude to interrupt someone who is typing. Then there is a lot of ignorant people who think they are doctors and they tell you what to do and they don't have a license to do so. It is really strange and then what they say doesn't make sense and they sound like they are talking about someone else and they talk about something completely different and they argue with you and they tell you what to do and they are inappropriate as well. There were too many weirdos I couldn't begin to count and they complain about how much you typed and how and what you say to them and they expect things to be perfect and they patronize you. There were people on there that bullied me and turned against me for no reason. They don't know what they are doing and how to help people. Avoid this site at all costs. They will make you miserable and they make you feel worse because its so toxic and they do this on purpose and people mess with you and play head games. I am glad I am gone and I am on an app and it is better than 7cups.