I am a member of Dream Marriage and just started talking to a very nice lady. I would really like to know if this is all just smoke and mirrors? I just don't want to waste my time. If it is a waste of time, be honest and say so. I won't run away calling it a scam, but my time I am not working is precious and few and I don't want to waste it.

asked by Grady S. on 4/13/16

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Thumbnail of user bobp43

Hans, is correct. It's no different than meeting a woman in a bar. However, on DM there are many women that are just there to write letters for money. Keep that in mind. If the woman you are communicating with is on the website 24/7 then she is most likely a waste of time. If it takes them several days to respond to your letter, then she's probably a waste of time.

Things are tough in Ukraine financially. So there are many women doing this in an attempt to put food on the table.

Stick with writing just letters. Stay away from "chat" and "videos". If they keep insisting on chat, get rid of them, because you are wasting your money.

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Thumbnail of user marca22

Save your money. They prey upon instant gratification. Lets face it, do you think all those pretty ladies are on there 24/7 waiting for you to write to them. In lies the scam. The program or someone else talks for them. Sure sometimes you can catch a girl on web cam, key word sometimes! That's to keep you thinking it must be real. Save your time and money!

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Thumbnail of user williamz7

I agree. I've read this before, and seen it first hand, so can't argue that point. Still, nothing good comes easy, as the saying goes.

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Hi, Grady. My advice to you is to use your common sense. I believe that of course there are serious and real women at Dream Marriage in the large ocean of fake profiles. What you could do is to find one of her written messages to you and do a google search on the content. See if it comes up with matches. Then you will have an idea if it is a standard composed letter. Another thing is to take the text she wrote about herself in her profile, do a Google search on that and see what happens. I wish you all the best; love still lives.

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Thumbnail of user garym198

I am not sure when you posted this, but I can assure you it is a very big waste of time and money.

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Thumbnail of user billj359

I find I'm getting a lot of responses The women are all very beautiful on this dating website

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Thumbnail of user jamesl811

Hey guys, are you blind there? A friend of mine used a dating site and met his wify from Ukraine and he's happy with her. He gave me the site and I've been already twice and met my woman from Russia. They are both opened and friendly! We met them here https://j4l.com/welcome2672.html Sure we have sometimes acces' but we always find out. I wish her to become my wife also.

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