The most likely answer is she wasn't interested in you and earned from the $60US or so it cost to buy her info. I also bought someones info and their first off site email wanted money to help pay for her internet at home. The sites admin didn't want to know about it or do anything. I have come to the conclusion most letters are not written by the person in the picture because when I suggested meeting they started talking about other things. Its mostly a scam site. Some guys have been there for years and are asking in the blogs why cant they find their partner. They aren't meant to on sites like this. They structured to make money not provide 'Brides'. I wrote a blog rejected by admin about the industry. Says a lot. If I had written about some inane subject as most blogs are it probably would of been published. Scam site in my experience and opinion.