Jeffrey's answer is absolutely correct. I just wanted to add that the "free lifetime membership" is totally worthless because you can not contact any other member in any way, and they can't contact you. Even calling it a membership is a lie. It's nothing, and nothing is always free. Also, those "online emissaries" are not even real people. There must be hundreds of fake profiles created and manipulated by the manplay staff to make you think you're being pursued by a bunch of hot studs who live in your city. It's all spelled out in the Terms of Service and when you sign up, you agree to participate in that "program". You're allowed the option to opt out, but if you request to, they just delete your profile.

You have to pay first but I would not do it! This website is a scam. The person you want to message is a paid actor that works for the scam operation. Join an established dating/hookup site like Adam4adam.com or if you are interested in a certain theme/fetish there are great sites for that as well. Let me know if you need any additional information and I will try to find the answer. Jeffery