By corresponding. I used the site for three months. I met a lady from Amsterdam. She flew here to see me. We stayed together for a month and a half. But it did not work out. She was nice. But it was not meant to be.

The site does have a lot of scammers on it. Just report them. Use google image search. Women are not paid to write you. I am told women are paid to write at pay per letter sites. Always use a site like rosebride that has a monthly fee. But again be careful. I used it with success, but I met like 20 scammers. Even one from Uadreams which is a scam site.