I had much better experience with http://FlingEasy.com
(this site gave me lots of hook ups with the prettiest chicks) and some other platforms, but Tendermeets is scam on the level I haven't seen before. They filled their site with fake profiles – totally fake accounts with stolen photos. They entrap you for a free trial or a monthly fee but charge you for a year. They subscribe you for additional features without notifying you. And then you can't cancel this sh*t! They just swindle people out of money. This pack of crooks will never confirm cancellation. They think the painstaking process will deter people from cancelling. I wish I had read all these reviews and looked for red flags before joining.

There are no decent dating sites which are very similar to Tendermeetsup.
That site has several companion sites,
They are all owned under one owner.
They also do unauthorized charges
Only use legitimate dating sites like Match.com