DateYou

They never answer a question you ask the woman, avoid responding to you.
I had a conversation 3 years ago on date you.com. The girl was plain looking, after my third chat I knew she was a false person. So today I spotted her, same woman,I tried to chat, doing that her reply page had my conversation with her from three years ago. I could of started up right then and chat with the ghost

I think it's funny that I get messages from girls telling me that they think I'm, "so cute". When I don't even have a photo on my profile. Asked for email address from a few, and the same response, "I don't have an email account..." Well how did they sign up. Total scam. Don't waste your time.

You get to pick a package by coins. Each send chat cost you coins its a scam using AI. The conversations on most dont respond correctly to your questions. For a male you get bombared by people that dont fit your set filter. Hey Babe, Handsome, are the common site responses. All the women have conversation that end in please don't leave me, some sort of sexual advances. Ask them question on the area they live. They change the topic.

This site is completely a scam. The people are all Bots and reply always in and with the same responses. You have to keep buying coins and wasting time and money. The bot females will always try to make you stay, but RUN!

The slot machine game when you login is nice. You bet 25 coins to win or lose more coins. At least you feel like you've gotten some value out of your money.

Seriously, this site is a scam. Never have I seen so many "girls" that live in my town on one dating site. More here than Tinder or AdultFriendFinder. You buy and burn coins to talk to dead-end profiles.

How do you know it is a scam? I replied to three profiles in the middle of the night, and each profile responded back within 5-10 minutes. Seriously, what a coincidence that all three users were up at 3:30 am. Once you suggest taking the chat to something like WhatsApp (that is both free and encrypted), they all belly ache that they feel safer on dateyou.com or I am not respecting their desire to be get to know me on that site. It's all non-sense as who feels safer on a shady site, in which your chats are not secure and subject to monitoring (so you don't shout BOMB in a chat)? Why pay for chatting when there are better and more secure chat sites? One user said she does not yet use Instagram, but she intends to really soon. The website algorithm must detect when you go online and immediately prompts a bot, a fake or paid user to engage you as the likes and messages start coming within minutes.

So, if you don't mind being led on by bots, fakes or profiles that are being compensated by the platform owner to jerk you around, then have fun. If you value a dollar and know when to call bulls**t, then don't bother with this site.

Rinse and repeat this review as most all of these sites are operating in the exact same manner.

The entire process is shabby the dozens of responses I got about being so "Hot" or "Sexy" when I didn't even post an image.

The sie is a scam! Save your money and go elsewhere. Some profiles are fake! They give you pictures of 60 year olds and I would realistically say they were half that age!.

I can sum it up in one word (SUCKS)!

It's anything but dating! J4Dream.com with their real and genuine ladies is like a breath of fresh air compared to Dateyou. I have never felt more ripped off than when dealing with Dateyou. They are con company run by unscrupulous money hungry fraudsters! The site is entirely about scam. You get to chat only with paid employees. Girls aim at making you deplete credit on chatting since they get a share of it. Try to mention that you are coming to see them next week and they will beat around the bush and refuse. Big shout out: stay away!

This site uses many fake accounts. Bots, using AI answer most of the questions. Averaged 90 e-mails a day received. It is a scam site that just wants you to buy more tokens to chat. If you say something like I just received 400 messages in 5 days, the answer will be " Thank you for sending your phone number, but I prefer we communicate on this site". Very poor AI. A total ripoff and scam.

This site is has got to be the most expensive dating site that you can go on. It doesn't take long to realize that something just isn't right. Nobody wants to really date they just want to chat. No subscription, you pay every time you want to chat it cost a dollar. Example, if you say hello that's 50 coins and at $5 for 220 coins you ask or reply five times you've spent five dollars. So in say five minutes you may spend 20-30 dollars and you've asked where each other live. Everyone is about getting you to chat and that's it. They basically try to entice you to chat and it's always with much younger women for guys. Not one person wanted to actually meet and get to know each other even though we supposedly live in the same city. They give free coins once a day and it's no more than enough one message, hello. There's much better alternatives.

I finally meet the person I been chatting profile photos was exactly the person she was we're getting married.

I havent spent any money yet, till I could do some research on the internet and find some good moral reviews and haven't found one. I filled out my profile and in less than 2 days I had over 50 women beating down my phone I haven't responded to anyone cuz I wasn't going to spend money I only clicked on like and that was it, some of them got mad because I didn't respond after I checked out their profile which is a hint right there, I get new clicks every minute on my profile I'm probably over 100 by now in 2 days are you kidding me so after careful review of all the unsatisfied customers I decided that I am not going to spend a dime, damn shame cuz of some of them were kind of cute, oh well anyone have any other suggestions on any dating sites that are legit?

Fake photos stolen from facebook and fake ID and robot AI conversations, there to drive up "coin" sales. Pure bull$#*!, don't fall for it.

None of the "women" asked can describe major streets or bodies of water in their area that a 12-year old would know. They contact you like you are new to the site, even though you just spent 2 weeks chatting with them. TOTAL SCAM!

This website is completely bogus. The same "women" are always online no matter what time of day or night, 24/7 and no woman is on line that much. They're all AI bots or people that are using fake profiles with stolen photos and locations working for and getting paid by the website just this game you added your money to buy coins to continue conversations that seem to go somewhere but never will. Luckily, I only wasted $10 of my hard earned money before I figured it out and I feel totally stupid that it took me that long to realize what was really going on. Save yourselves the unnecessary anxiety and stay away from this site it's a complete scam. Don't fund these criminals.

Bots constantly write you so that you will spend all your coins. Coins are used to chat with the women. So you cannot chat if you do not buy more coins. This is how the site makes money. This site is totally fake with not one real woman who will mutually leave the site with you. They try to keep you there so that you will buy more coins. A huge let down and biggest fraud out there. Stay plenty clear of these criminals!

I've was a customer of this site, I tried talking to Beautiful girls, and ugly girls... NOT ONE OF THEM IS REAL. They will continue to refuse any kind of outside communications... even after you have spent a lot of money to just send messages... please don't fall for this scam like I did. It's really sad some people will just try and profit off others sadness without being a legitimate dating site. Heck... you could do the same thing... but allow real people to try and get together... I wish I could give it Zero stars.

Complete scam and disgusting rip off! Women (and men who use pictures of hot women) get paid by the site. Don't trust these scammers! I let them con me into this nasty site and lost money. But eventually I left it and now I'm in relationship with an honest and wonderful woman.
My recommendation is: don't waste your time and money on Dateyou. All they can offer to their members is beautiful pictures of fantasy women and plenty of scammers who are there to milk men for money!

Spent a few bucks buying credits so I could chat with so called hot women. At least 70% of the women wanted to sleep with me yet not one was willing to switch the chat to another app which was free so we could arrange to meet for a meal. The usual response was "I'm more comfortable chatting here."
Avoid this site if you're trying to genuinely find someone honest.

I was talking to Gisselle66, and she then posted an entire conversation she had with some user named ChatGPT looking for advice for how to respond to my inquiry to meet. If the following doesn't prove Fraud, then I don't know what does. Don't waste your money!

At 23:50:
Respectful Response to User Default (GPT-3.5) User How should I respond to this without accepting his answer about Candace? "Why waste a $1.50 to tell you.I...AM...NOT.AVAILABLE...! I found someone on this site over 3 months ago and I have fallen in love with her. I will never message anyone else except Candace." ChatGPT You can respond respectfully without accepting his answer by saying something like, "I appreciate your honesty, and I'm glad you found someone you care about. However, I was just curious about Candace, so I hope things work out well for both of you." This response acknowledges his feelings without engaging in further conversation about the topic. User What questions could I ask regarding that? 3 / 3 ChatGPT If you're genuinely interested in getting to know more about Candace or the situation, you could ask questions like: "That's great to hear you've found someone special in Candace. Can you tell me more about her?" "How did you two meet on this site?" "What do you like most about your relationship with Candace?" "Do you have any plans for the future together?" "How has your experience on this site been overall?" These questions can help you engage in a conversation without challenging his previous statement. User How should I respond to this? "Trying to figure out how we can move forward. I'm really not into dirty chats, I'd like to talk with you so we can have a conversation and see if we click and if there's a spark. I'm not pressing you to meet IRL yet, but I do want something more satisfying than this." ChatGPT You can respond by expressing your interest in meaningful conversation by saying something like, "I completely understand. I'm also interested in getting to know someone through meaningful conversation. Let's chat and see where our connection takes us." This shows that you share the same intention and are open to a more substantive interaction. User Longer ChatGPT Certainly, here's a slightly longer response: "I appreciate your approach and your desire for a genuine connection. I'm also not into dirty chats and believe that meaningful conversations are a great way to establish a connection. Let's take our time to talk, get to know each other better, and see if there's a genuine connection and chemistry between us. While I'm not ready to meet in person just yet, I'm open to building something more meaningful through our conversations. Let's see where this journey takes us!

Algorithm. A bunch of women writing is fake. I guess they are scammers, male, can be some women, definitely using fake profiles. Not recommended. You will waste your time. They only want that you chat to charge money for every message.

A COMPLETE fraud...they use bots and answer center personnel.you are not talking to anyone real.Its a fake picture.just some bot or answer center person on a keyboard. Total scam... I wasted close to $1000 before checking up on them after seeing many red flags...broken english from supposedly college graduates you are talking to...BEWARE.ITS A SCAM