I was on this site for at least 2 stints of a 6 month membership, so a year or more. I had dates with maybe 2-5 guys during that time. Not many attractive guys and forget it if you want to use the match app on your phone. It will be buffering for daaayyyysss. I've been on several online dating sites and this is probably my least favorite. Based on what they charge, you should have a much better experience than what they provide. I would suggest Bumble, Tinder, Ok Cupid, or even POF.