I have been a member of dream singles for four or five years now (it's been so long). I was never able to travel to meet a woman, until just recently, for several reasons. Primarily it was my own legal problems, but I continued to believe, and fight for what I wanted. Of course, the full-scale invasion of Ukraine was a big part too, but I stayed the path. I fell in love with a few different profiles (I won't even call them people), because I was told many things that didn't correspond with the things I had been told in other letters, as well as outright (and provable) lies. I didn't know who or what was real, so I "hedged my bets," so-to-speak. I was so certain that I knew my best options, so I actually traveled to Ukraine, during a war. I informed the ladies, and even tried to meet ANY of them (including through the website), and I was met with excuses. "I can't meet you," or "I don't have time," because of one thing or another (i.e. Death in the family or work). All valid reasons (but not all of them were). However, when it's the same kind of story with, at least, four different women (at the same time), I stopped being so desperate and gullible. I saw the truth. I had spent years, (at a minimum) tens of thousands of dollars, countless hours and time (not to mention my energy, emotions and heart), I made all the effort and took down all obstacles and barriers just to be met with bull-$#*!, so I was angry, depressed and heartbroken. I truly believe that I have a legal case (that might be a class-action lawsuit), but I still have to consult an attorney. If nothing else, I want to warn men (like me), that we are preyed upon and taken advantage of (as I am sure that you know), and NOT TO FALL FOR THIS ELABORATE, GREEDY SCAM. It's complete bull-$#*!, and I hope that we will all be avenged.