I've been on this site for about 14 months now at first I spoke with many women and then down to go to my age group and women I spoke with three women study this last one I've been speaking with for seven months I've spoke with her parents on face chat we write letters mostly we chat once in a while and it's not that expensive if you control yourself now that you can purchase their information I did that with one lady and I Communicated for a little bit off the site with her when she wanted to go back on that's when I left her this last when I'm ready to purchase her information and she said will leave the site once we do that so I'll find out but I've had no problem with this site I would recommend it with no problem