Most of the people you get messages from are just horny men looking to satisfy their kink, i have spoken to 1 genuine person but the rest just want to use you, its just as bad as grindr.
With only 1 free message allowed a day how in gods name are you going to find a date? It's complete BS and forcing an already struggling community to pay JUST TO TALK is absolutely pathetic and the app should be taken down, it is literally abusing a minority.