For many years it was a site that could provide everything for everyone. I rate it as one of the best site if not the best site ever. However, in recent years men like Martin Z, have been coming to the site in droves and most don't know the meaning of the word sexy, as opposed to sex. Sexy encompasses everything about a person, including the non physical, sense of humor, respect (by the true definition of the word). Any male that goes to a free site and expects non paying women to just be ready to do sex is not realistic. The food talkers and others all do want to enjoy intimacy uninhibited, but are not ready to just qualify their involvement by physical stats only. So, If you are agendized and looking for just one thing. Not the site for you, but if you understand the words sexy and respect. Great place for you