Jeff L.

First of all, the design of Bear411 is old and really needs some re-design.

I used to be a member of Bear411 a while ago bit I found that other dating sites really overtook (sites like Gay-Boyfriend.com and GR offer a much better value). And additionally, closing an account can be a real pain. The site is not very customer friendly.

However, I still believe that a 1star rating is not fair because the site is better than that for sure! Meanhwile I am still much more happy on other sites and as long as they don't redesign and improve their customer support, I will most likely not come back too soon.

The so called "Best Gay Dating Site" is still my favorite place to date... but first my story:

I come from a very conswervative country where homosexuality is not being tolerated in public. Therefor it is almost impossible to hook up with other gay men in public, not only not possible but also dangerous! That is why we depend on the internet to hook up.

So, Gay-Boyfriend really helped me out with a truely huge amount of signed in members, also from my country. It seems like a whole bunch of porfiles are not really active or being used anymore but there are still a lot to hook up with.

The good thing about gay-boyfreind is that they offer whatever you are searching for: Casual hook up, marriage, freindship, relationship. You decide what kind of gay hook up you want.