Trust me, I had to find it out myself and I wasted bunch of money on this " experiment". I had online relationship (connection, chemistry, whatever you call this) with 11 women on ColumbianCupid (not at the same time :)) and all of them avoided meeting me. They all came up with all kinds of excuses, but they all fibbed about it. I realize now that neither of those women aimed at having relationship. Sadly, it was just an odd job for them. I suspect it's a well-paying job in Latin America. It makes sense to use it only if you want to look at sexy photos, but that's as far as it goes.