I've been there 4 times in the last four years, looking for romance and quitting in disgust. It's mostly brats complaining about petty things like "The sun came up today" or "Why are men such $#*!s" or similar, or it's single-digit IQ women who are looking to collect money. It's mostly a lonely, barren place, and you're likely to get more depressed about the human race in general after spending time there. The handsome, built men get all the attention and if you are fat guy (I'm not!) prepare to be ignored- you can literally send dozens of polite private messages to people you are attracted to and never get even a hello back. It's also full of men who send $#*! pics or can't hold a conversation beyond "Hi!" and "What's up?"
It is also the most PC site on the web, if you as a male make one remark that doesn't toe the line of social warriors who never leave their couch and who think the whole world should come to their point of view, you will get a string of either angry women or virtue-signaling men jumping on you.
It's a site for kids, not adults actually looking for a fat partner.
MUST TO AVOID