I understand allowing the site for paying members on peak times, but you could still check your messages, until recently you can't even check your messages now, it says you need to pay, and it's all day long even on week days it's been 7 days now and haven't been able to check my messages, 9 days they auto delete, this is bull$#*!... I was a paying member for a while, and to have this happen when I'm not paying is crap, I tried to pay before and his $#*!ed payment company ccbill and verotal won't accept my payment... This buddybear guy is an idiot, I also don't understand why my other friend can view his messages, and not blocked from getting on the site, on the times I cant, I had him check tonight, if it is selective picking on who he thinks attractive or not this guys can go to hell, i'm 10 times hotter than him, and bears like that need to accidentally fall off a cliff and survive it after breaking every bone in their body, I really hate this guy, avoid this site, and please somebody make one to put this guy out of business, he should be arrested or sued! If your gonna allow some free members to have access, then all should, it should be all or nothing, not selective, this could be a good case for a lawsuit I would think.