Michael P.

I went on this site in 2014 at the strong suggestion of my counselor. It was nice--met a few nice ladies, had a few dates, one relationship or two, and made friends as well.

Ehem--then I returned in 2020. It was overrun by scammers--I'd stopped looking for love and ran out my subscription by reporting fake profiles, as many as 30 a day. I lost count. Then after a month, customer service told me my account had been hacked and I'd been locked out--and how? I have no idea--but when I called customer service about it they told me and then a dude with a strong Middle Eastern accent told me if I paid Christian Mingle $200, they'd fix my account. So let me get this straight--a useless site with no vetting hacks my account which hasn't given me any value at all, and they want me to pay them an additional $200 to fix it so I can spend more time on their useless site?

Nope--I hadn't met anyone on that site since 2015, so I politely told them no, lost a month or so of my subscription but was fed up. What happened to this site?

Silver Singles--their censorship of my profile narrative is so bad, I left most of the sections blank. They censor your faith statements, and when you write about it they censor that too. About 95% of my contacts were scammers--apparently they have NO vetting at all. My daily matches were mostly outside my parameters by as much as 180%, so they were useless, and I'm not able to browse freely to find a mate who does meet my specifications--not allowed! I asked for people within 200 miles and they go well out past 560.

I wrote customer service and received instructions on how to change details of my profile! They went detail by detail on changing my parameters (my parameters are fine if you would pay attention to them).

This site may be the worst I've ever seen--okay, eDate was the worst, but this is quickly gaining. It's like I give them a wad of money and then they try to force upon me who THEY want me to date, to hell with what I want!