I am an older guy looking for a relationship. Nearly all of the "women" are between 33 and 38, Those are the scammers. They will ask you to move off the site immediately, try to get your Skype number then text that their microphone in their phone doesn't work. That's a very common tactic. "Buy me a new phone" "My father needs surgery" "My car was stolen"... Age mid-forties and older is much safer but there are few. The safe way to deal with this site is to assume all members are scammers. I got my money back by convincing them they would get a You Tube video.