Msmay M.

I've been on this site forever. I will tell you one thing you will come across on the site with many people that will help you and listen in your time of need. I have had exchanged gifts mutely with members for various reasons. I am not telling to join the sites so you can get gifts, its the meaning behind the gift that someone cares for you. There are some shady people on NLL that are just on some negative path for sure you will discover that in time, just like any where else. It's like that old saying goes, " there is always a bad apple amongst the bunch". Nobody is perfect and the site can at times can be helpful. As for dating its really hard to find someone that is local and tons of people are all over the USA and the world. Lots of long distance and online relationships. The web master used to seem to care however now it appears he is otherwise preoccupied or overwhelmed with the site. He does not return emails to members or take users off the site that have been proved to be abusive & unsafe. He believes in second chances which are good will of faith, We all mess things up from time to time nobody is perfect. People get in disagreements and have differences it happens. However these people will be allotted years and years of chances terrorizing and traumatizing other members. I used to moderate the site for years, I was really devoted to the community of NLL it once gave me a purpose. Sadly after some time, I could not handle the mischief in chat anymore and decided not to moderate; The site it has changed for the worst and it's a free for all. Yet still I am a member because I have a family circle of member that are through hard and good times. I basically keep in contact with certain members. I am not writing this to point fingers or call names everyone has there own personal experience. I encourage you take a chance see for yourself. I highly suggest to just beware of the people whom are unstable that are not there for betterment and personal growth. I hope you will try the NLL site because there are a few and far between good caring people are still on there if your in a crisis or need to talk to people whom are also suffering from mental illness.