Nazia N.

The site is ok. Its not really any different to any other dating site. You really have to work your way through the strands of hay with a fine tooth comb in order to find the needle you are looking for. There are some decent people, some weirdos, some catfishes, some scammers, a lot of 'ghosters' (guys who will immediately stop responding to you mid conversation for no reason), many liars and of course A LOT of men who are just there looking for a casual hook up. I'm told the women are no different. You just have to be extra careful when vetting people. It helps to be open and honest about what you want and sadly like with everything in life, wasting your time writing an impressive profile is pointless because everyone still bases their decision on your appearance first and foremost so just make sure you upload as many decent looking pics as you can and keep your profile short and sweet and to the point. Don't bother writing your life story, no offence but the men there don't really possess the ability to read.

I did have some ok meetings with one or two guys who it didn't work out with in the end because we both wanted different things. It can be very infuriating trying to find the right one but unfortunately - for myself and I'm sure many other people now - online apps are the only place I have left to find someone. I don't have any connections to the outside world, I've asked around for many years to no avail, my friends don't know any Muslim people, all I can do is keep searching online in the hopes that it will pay off someday.

But just don't have high hopes at finding your 'perfect soulmate' obviously. I'm sure its happened for some but realistically for many of us the best we can hope for is to settle for someone good enough.