My sister lives by herself and it made it easy for her to hide her self-harm and hard for us to detect it. We would see the cuts but she always had excuses for them. Once we did we got her to The Meadowglade by just getting her to promise to one visit. Thankfully the understanding she gained at that visit shed some light on her problem for her and she is undergoing treatment as I write with the confidence she will conquer the evil habit.