I quit this site months ago but my profile is still up and match keeps sending me emails about winks, favorites and emails sent to me, etc. but to answer any of these I would have to sign up again. Now I understand why some of the listings I responded to when I was a member were never read. The people were no longer members and were really phantoms.
On the plus side and hence the 2 stars I did meet a wonder mate, 6 months and going