Randy R.

The Good - Fairly inexpensive, foreign men pay by the month with discounts for multiple month subscriptions. Filipinas apparently are not charged. There appears to be a lot of different women on the site at any time. Some of the ladies are very pretty and most of the sincere ones are willing to move permanently to your country. If you are just interested in "fun", there are ladies who express that as their goal too.

The Bad - There are a lot of scammers and while the site will remove them if you complain, they don't seem to do any real certification of the women. They can usually get back on the site with a different name and number. There also seems to be a cabal of women who either work together in a room or coordinate with emails to scam men. DO NOT EVER GIVE ANY GIRL ANY MONEY! If you do, you will get put on the "suckers" list. List prominently in your profile that you will NOT give out any money for any reason. Most of the ladies want you to meet them on Whatsapp or Skype, if they ask immediately or give you their contact the first time you chat, avoid them, they are most likely scammers. Profiles of girls with few pictures and little info are almost always scammers. If you are looking for a wife, tell them up front that is your goal. If they profess intense love immediately, pay close attention because once they think they have you hooked, then they will probably request money whether or not they are a scammer.

Always attempt to video chat with them several times before you commit any serious time or effort into them. If they always have excuses not to video chat, they are most likely scammers. Be flexible though. Many of the girls are very poor and can't afford a lot of time chatting due to the pay per minute phone system they use. But be sure you are not just watching a video. Do not video yourself in any compromising way unless you don't care who sees you. Most likely if the girl wants you to show yourself in that way, she will try to use it to blackmail you.

OTHER -- And be polite. Don't be asking to see her naked or partially undressed until you have established a very good relationship. Even though they are poor, they do have their pride and it ruins it for other guys if you abuse them. And if you do find a lady to hook up with, be honest about your intentions. They are familiar with sex tourists and if they are interested in friends with benefits, they will expect you to treat them well and pay for everything. It's always good to be nice, you never know, you might fall in love.