I don't think asiandate.com is a scam website just because they charge money for their services. There seem to be a lot of guys out there who thought they could find a date/girlfriend/wife the day they joined up, but anyone with a brain knows that it's not that simple. Sometimes it can take months to get to know someone properly and even then it can turn our that you're not suitable for each other when you finally meet, that's just life and you shouldn't blame anyone for it.