AM requires a bit of effort if you are a man. You need to spend time chatting with other members and send out a lot of messages. Create a nice profile and add a few pictures. You won't get any response with only two lines of text in your profile! In my opinion AM is genuine and always worth a try. If you are from the UK you have same local options like iCheat.co.uk as well. Guess it is worth trying several sites to see how they compare.