Sure, this site is far from perfect, lets be strait on that from the start. I got the usual loads of messages before I paid and then the amount dropped by a lot. But the key point I still get messages. I get replies from real married ladies and ive even had one or two contact me first in the few weeks ive been a member. So im liking the site and best thing is that its got a few safety badges and talks a lot about security so im feeling like they at least get whats MOST important here folks I dont want my goddam wife finding out im on this site trying to bang half of Manchester! Its a shame other cheating sites dont understand thats the key difference between me joining a site for married people and me joining some standard casual sex site like aff, I need that extra lair of security. Definitely would recommend this site to friends, except that wouldnt be a good idea as they might tell my wife LOL!