I tried to join POF and I received an email saying that I was successful. However, I've been unable to log on and I keep getting a "Your username or password was incorrect" and I know I'm typing in the correct info. Also it says to ask for a password reminder (thinking this might held) and all I get is "That email address is not in our database". Huh? It's the same email they used to send me my confirmation. I've sent them several emails asking for their help, but no response. Also I was able to find their phone number and I tried several times to call them, but again, no answer. Is this site just a scam? okcupid.com is also free and it's been working without any problems.