I was just curious about the website, so filled out a little info and before I knew it, I was a member, but I didn't want to subscribe until I investigated a little more. I received a few messages, but you can't respond unless you pay... and when they show you pics of people and ask if you want to meet, you have to respond to earn "coins" or buy the coins to be able to view some messages or reply to them. I can't figure out how to delete my profile, so I just removed my pics and info... I got even MORE responses after I did this, most of them way too young and too far away. This is without a doubt the stupidest dating site ever! Wish I could give it a minus 5 stars! (Since I can't delete, I have "hidden" my profile... anxious to see how many matches I get that way, LOL)