I was sort of scammed to join this site. (I knew what was happening, but went along to see where it went!) Nonetheless, that tells you something about how they operate.
But I did not buy a pay membership. And without that, you can do NOTHING. You cannot view profiles, you cannot search profiles, you cannot send messages, you cannot read messages,... who-knows-what you probably cannot do. And it's not cheap: They want $29.86 for a one-month membership.