Blanco D.

If you like being cornered into using features you don't want, fetlife is for you. They don't allow you to narrow search filters by gender or gender identity, so basically you'd better hope you're bi, pan, or just entirely neutral to seeing genitalia you're unattracted to constantly. They say this is to foster Inclusivity but it makes it nearly impossible to find m4m partners when there are more female users and straight men users on the site by a large proportion that make it hard to find viable profiles. Genuinely in disbelief they think it's smart to force people to look at genitalia against their preference. The app itself while being pretentious in it's design, is useless, crowded with people that spam like content but don't engage, and lots of members that won't meet without asking you to jump through dozens of hoops before meeting. And the app is dated, never loads and always crashes. All in all a terrible, clunky, pretentious experience in fetlife from me.