I paid for a 3 mo membership 2x. 5 months in and EVERY contact is military in Syria, Afghanistan, or North Korea... right? They are NOT LDS and want money or gift cards. This site does not vet its members. You can block and report but it is a waste of your time. I am sure there are a few real folks out there, as I am, but they are not contacting me. After joining friends asked what site I was on and told me this is normal here. Please do not join this site if you are looking for a real person. Try Match.com, where you can search for LDS and they do a better job vetting. I have included an image that is part of a scammer chat and underlined the flags that appear on most chats word for word.