I have been a member, pay and not pay intermittently for 8years. Of the few I've joined, this is one that has given promise in potential and actual real time meetings with gay men in South America, Europe and the US. In relation to prices charged by other gay dating sites providing less fruitful results, I consider it has been so far an honest site worthy as a pay site. I also thank SiteJabber for being available so that I am less likely to be taken by other unscrupulous business practices.