Male bloggers everywhere are telling men to get off of dating apps. Men, just do it. If you are a decent person in general, just do it. This app's problems lied more in the type of people who were on there. I remember getting blocked by people who I never even sent messages to, I guess as a 'pre-strike' so I'd not attempt to speak to them. Then eHarmony has this childish way of telling you, you were blocked by making an announcement: "So and so says goodbye." It was the first time someone told me 'goodbye' I'd never spoken to. The culture felt like it was full of 'church people' who were socially inept. If you've got things going for you...can carry on conversation well face to face don't delve into this fiasco. Don't dumb yourself down to the level of the other members who are socially inept or the app itself, which caters to that type of behavior. The app and a lot of the folks on there are going nowhere in life. Be one who is going places.