First of all this amazing "compatibility" program they supposedly have on eharmony does not really exist. I bought a six month membership and all they've sent me is scammers, inactive profiles, sexual diviants, liars, idiots, and a ton of guys who seem barely able to read and write. I have not met a single person who seems even halfway decent, but have spoken with several who immediately want to lead it into the subject of sex. Almost every guy posts very old pictures, and a lot of the pictures are blurry. I talked with a few long enough to find out their last name and then checked them out on background check sites, and most were lying about their age, and a couple of them turned out to be married, two of them had criminal records. Stay away from this form of dating. I would never recommend eharmony and would warn people away in the strongest terms. I'm very glad I never actually met with any of these creeps, I probably would have been murdered.
Lisa, we do indeed wish to keep your experience safe on our services. We hard to identify and close individuals who misrepresent who they are on our site, and we take our members complaints seriously. If you have concerns about a particular match, please do not hesitate to report your match to us so that appropriate steps can be taken to keep eharmony safe.
You can report your match directly from their profile page or from within your communication, as shown in the images below. Once reported, this information will be sent directly to our Trust & Safety team for review. Please be assured that all reports are kept completely confidential.
Part of the matching process is to review the presentation of a match’s profile, if the match does not appeal to you, you are always welcome to close the match.
I would really like the opportunity to help you as to your concerns, you can email me at, membercare@eharmony.com