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Mahi-mahi S.

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  • Gayquation

3/15/23

I have tried gayquation (sorry, not going to reveal who I am). I can attest the good part of the service: the staff working on my case is very nice and also he replies quickly.

But after a few months exploration, I have to admit, this business mode just won't help you find a boyfriend. Save your money and energy. Maybe go to gym, or go to bars. If you want a "your type", you need to go out and meet people by yourself.

There are reasons for this:
1. People on this service are generally more picky than people you could meet in real life. Think about this, they pay hundreds of dollars to match makers. What's the point for not getting their "type" but getting a regular man that could be found on app?

2. They do not have a big enough database. Who would really pay for a matchmaking service? The super picky ones or the super desperate ones. People who are attractive do not have problems findings someone they want, for relationship or for hookups. This is just a cruel human nature. They do not need services like this. Especially when the matchmakers' work is to exhaust all the profiles on the apps just to find guys for you.

Most Gay guys are highly expressive and they do not have an exclusive network for gay men. Only if you want to find the "dl in closest ones". Why don't you go to apps again then?

Also, think about this business mode. If everyone can easily find his "type", this service will no longer survive.

I'm sorry to point this out to all Potential buyers. This service does not work. You will be disappointed by all the guys they provide you and think they are all "too average" or even "below average". If you do not think this way, you shouldn't be the one needing a matchmaking service. Do not expect this service to have magic power. You have to meet guys by yourself. Go to gym, go to bar, go to gay sport event, go to anything that helps with boosting your confidence and helping you socialize with other gay men. This is 2023, life is short. Don't waste your time and money on nonsense.

To the business owner of gayquation. I am sorry I said a lot of bad comments on your service. It's not that you guys didn't try. It is just that matchmaking does not work for most people anymore, especially for gay people. I have the screenshots of your staffs telling me "gays are just super picky", "your area has little number of gays", "you are attractive but you also have high standards", etc. there are even close to racism comments (well, the gay community is with a lot of racism I understand).

But did you realize that's the reason why I signed up to begin with? It is because gay guys are picky. It is because I don't live at the center of a metropolitan city (but I'm also not too far from it, let's be honest, 20 mins drive is nothing). It is because I have some standards (but shouldn't I?) it is because all these that I signed up. Apparently, this service is not the solution.

P.s. I am not an angry desperate man who cannot get a man. I get men, but through socializing at gym, bar, and events. It was difficult to begin with, but it worked out well. Guys, again, just go out and meet people and be hopeful with yourself.

Tip for consumers:
Who may be good customer for this service?
1. You are not picky at all (open your dating app and you are “open minded” enough to be able to sleep first 10 dudes showing up in your app)
2. You are so busy that you don’t have time to scroll through dating apps or personally go out for a gay meetup event.

If not the case, don’t even bother with this service. It won’t work for you. It is not a scam, but it just won’t work.

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Kisha R. – Gayquation Rep

We appreciate the honest feedback and concerns as we try to improve our services year over year.

Please note our current network exceeds over 10k+ across the globe (including clients and vetted non-clients), with those predominantly in the United States. We are proud that this represents the largest pool of gay, male, LTR-seekers in the industry. We are also one of the only agencies that do not subscribe to blind dating, ask more questions, provide more transparency with market reports and strictly follow every one of our client’s deal breakers – whether physical, personal or lifestyle. For this reason, our rejection levels are higher than the average matchmaker. Our client’s must also approve of EVERY potential match before it becomes official. I say this to say that even with a large network, we never force an intro in order to fill a quota. Quality introductions with like-minded men, mutual interest and dually met criteria is of utmost important to us.

For example, we do not continue qualifying someone if our client desires children and a potential match does not or sexual role, for instance, where as we know, two bottoms don’t make a right. :) We follow laws of attraction qualities first, like distance, career, culture, religion, lifestyle, etc, then move to the next phase, including a possible personal connection. Many traditional matchmakers bypass this phase and project one onto another due to a limited network with no headhunting outside their network. Unfortunately, many potentials die on the vine at different points of the process but we always adhere to our client’s criteria. Our matchmakers give honest assessments based on sample size, our client’s and market feedback and, if need be, get more aggressive on their “hunt” – but again, never without pushing an intro. Much depends on one’s criteria, location and/or demographics. Their approach is customized based on these factors and relay this info, not only during the interview, but along the way as real time data comes in. A market report, called Optima (https://www.gayquation.com/optima.html), is provided several weeks into the process to give more insight and a transparent view to our clients, including further suggestions and plan going forward. All to optimize our client’s chances – controlling every variable we can on our end, including effort.

Typically, an over 2 hour interview is conducted with one of our Senior matchmakers, and while he may give suggestions in order to optimize his chances, we do not go beyond our client’s criteria without prior consent. Your assigned lead matchmaker, Nick Papadopoulos, typically conducts interviews that have ran as long as 4 hours, gives unfiltered assessments and answers queries within 24 hours, even on weekends. Along with a Senior matchmaker, a Junior matchmaker is part of every client’s team. They not only tap into our extensive network but begin headhunting from day number one as, yes, there may not be a match within the network. Our network has grown year over year in 15 years, however we do not take it for granted. Rather than assume matches will automatically come from there, our matchmakers spend much of their time, on our client’s behalf, headhunting - literally turning over stones from scratch – screening, reaching out, communicating and qualifying potential matches outside Gayquation. This is also how we have grown our vetted non-client pool, our largest network. We also conduct background checks of every green lit match. Matches are replaced if deal breakers are not met; misrepresentations; previous acquaintances; or non-communication starters.

Lastly, if any introductions remain on our client’s balance, they roll over to the next month. They are guaranteed or otherwise 75% of the LTR-seeking market within a 25 mile radius of our client’s location has been saturated. Even when a client stops his membership, he remains active until they have been fulfilled. Please see more here: https://www.gayquation.com/guarantee.html

Again, all potential matches that are interested in connecting MUST be approved by our client before becoming official as yours were. Rejected matches do not count towards one's balance of intros. Our client's feedback is used to narrow or broaden their matchmaking team's blinders going forward.

Please note that we strive to make our services as tangible as we can, but of course within reason. We value our client’s feedback – so much so - that we continually make changes even from just one person’s suggestion, including yours.

Please do reach out directly as I am happy to provide complimentary introductions as I do hope we are given a second opportunity.

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